Yes I remember Lucille as my husband played with Leo Shima and she always asked for In Heaven there is no beer. That always made me wonder. and she loved How Much is that Doggie in the window. I dont drink either but I love to polka and maybe her too?

Lucille was more than a grandma to me. She was my best friend. I could talk to her about anything, call her at any time, and she'd always give me a comforting shoulder, wise advice, and help me feel at peace.I remember talking with her once about wanting to do something big in life so I would be remembered by the world and she didn't share my goal. She told me that the greatest goal you could accomplish was to be remembered fondly by those you loved for the difference you made in their lives. That really struck me and changed my whole perspective. Surely grandma will live forever in memory because of all the lives she touched.

What a beautiful sweet spirit Lucille had. I remember her at the Free Methodist Church in Iowa City as a true servant of God. She often prayed for those of us who were youth at the church.

Dear Uncle Larry & Family:

I am so sorry for the error in the spelling of Mr. Wayne Hamer's last name, in the previous post. L H Ross

Please except my condolences to the family of my Aunt Lucille Calkins. I have fond memories of my Aunt Lucille at the Hammer family reunions when I was young. I'm sure she will be missed by many. Sincerely, Wayne Hammer

I worked at NCS for years and Lucy was always a joy to work with and for. I am sorry for your loss! What I learned when my mother died July 23, 2008 is you take one day at a time, you live for the memories and it shows your support system. Her family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Mary Ann Nida (Pfab)

I worked at NCS for years and Lucy was always a joy to work with and for. I am sorry for your loss! What I learned when my mother died July 23, 2008 is you take one day at a time, you live for the memories and it shows your support system. Her family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Mary Ann Nida (Pfab)

After Glow I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one. I'd like to leave an after glow of smiles when life is done. I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times, and bright and sunny days. I'd like the tears of those who grieve to dry before the sun of happy memories that I leave When life is done.

The Dash I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end. He noted that first came the date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years for that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth. For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, what matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard. Are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, that can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough To consider what's true and real and always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we've never loved before. If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy is being read With your life's actions to rehash would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Calkins/Hamer Family. My fondest memories of Aunt Lucille were her contagious smile and laugh, as well as being a wonderful cook and baker. Aunt Lucille will be greatly missed.

I hadn't gotten the chance to meet Craig's mother/ Amanda's Grandmother but by reading these posts I now know more about Craig and Amanda and how they become who they are. Craig is such a gardener and a chef--good traits that can only be inherited from wise parents. Bowling must be such a joy for the Calkins family as it is a weekly tradition to go to the bowling alley. And being there for one another is not always found in a family but I know from my position that there's nothing this family wouldn't do for one another, no matter what. I am blessed to be a part of this family and I look forward to making new memories. Nothing brings a family closer than going through hard times. We share our love and warm feelings with Craig and Amanda. Focus on the joys of life and the people who are here still. Give a moment each day to smile back on the times together as you heal. Remember that as you suffer from grief your mother/grandmother is now relieved of all the pain & challenges she endured that last months of her life. Now she is able to do the things she loves most as she waits to see her loved ones again.

My sympathy to Larry, Craig, and family

I have so many wonderful and amusing memories of my Aunt Lucille. She was in my life from the time I was an infant and all the following years. I remember her as my baby sitter while my parents worked. We had so much fun with Lucille and Larry at our cabin on the Cedar River. Larry and Lucille would come almost every Sunday. Lucille would always bring some good homemade goodies with her. We shared some fun trips in our school bus camper with them too. She never forgot the birthdays either, always a couple of dollars included with the card for a birthday treat.

She will be missed by so many that shared her life. I am in Texas at this time, so will not be at the funeral, but I will be there in thought and prayers. My mother was Dorothy Stoneburner. Lucille's only sister. Helen (Stoneburner) Kaeser (niece)

Larry, Craig and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss and want you to know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time.

I was so very blessed to have the best grandma in the world with me for almost 29 years. My childhood is filled with so many wonderful memories with my grandparents. They came to all my softball games and band concerts. Even as time went on and grandma's osteoperosis worsened and it became harder for her to stand and walk, she was always there. She did everything she could to help me in life. She was the only one who I would listen to when I was 16 years old and headed down a dark path. She comforted me during my parents divorce. I loved Mondays and Fridays because that meant I got to stay at grandma's house while my parents bowled. She would drive me home and sit with me while I fell asleep waiting for my mom to come home. She taught me to always see the good in everything, and that love is the greatest gift of all. I am so grateful to have been able to be a part of her and my grandpa's final moments, and to have seen the true love between them. I will never forget you grandma and I will always carry you in my heart and think of you, especially as the spring flowers begin to bloom over the next few weeks. You loved your flowers so much, I know you are helping God's flowers bloom here on Earth. I love you, Thank you for everything, always.

Our hearts and prayers go out to the Calkins family. Lucille will be greatly missed. I had the joy of growing up in Iowa City and having memories of going camping on the Cedar River and many family gatherings.

So sorry for your loss Craig and Laurie. I'm am thinking of and praying for you. Remember your good memories.

Craig sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Your family will be in our prayers.

Larry, Craig, Laurie, Amanda and family,

So sorry about Lucille's passing.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eileen and Mary

Larry and Family,

Larry & family,

Our hearts are with you at this difficult time. Lucille and you have been our good friends for more years than one can count.

Craig, Laurie, Amanda and family, please accept our sympathy and know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time. You are in our prayers.

Tim and Jane

Larry sorry for your loss Tim And Pam

Larry , Craig and entire family .

I want you all to know that iam very sorry to hear about your loss . She was always so sweet and friendly with one big smile . I know she is now no longer in pain and suffering . Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers .

Matt Gavin

It was a very saddened morning to wake and realize that we lost a very special women in our family . She will always be remembered and loved. My wife Amanda has told me so many great stories and I wish I could have met her alot sooner. We would always walk into the care facility and she would always be smiling the whole time we were there. It will be different as I told Amanda going there and her not being there but as I told her she is pain free now and in a better place with other family, she will always be with us . You will always be loved and truly missed Lucille (Grandma)

I was very saddened to hear that Lucille had passed away. She always seemed to have a smile on her face and be so happy. I will always cherish those times when her and Lawrence would come to visit my parents (Fred and Arlieta). They always had so many stories of past times. It was great to hear about the way things use to be for her and my Dad as they grew-up. In later years I worked with her at NCS, where I got to know her more. It always seemed like everybody knew who she was there, if I needed to do something for her. She was always fun to be around and always tried to keep me up-to-date on family news.

From the staff at Iowa City Rehab- Lucielle was a great lady! We will miss her. Our thoughts and prayers to the family.

Our sympathies, Lucille was a wonderful women who always had a smile for everyone.

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. I am holding you close in thought and prayer during this difficult time.

Craig, Amanda and Larry,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Lucy! I'm so glad I was able to get to know her. She was such a wonderful lady. Her and Larry were so cute. They had great stories about their life together. And they loved each other so much. If only everybody could have a love like that. They had many stories of Amanda growing up as well, they sure do love you Amanda. Hang in there. You're in my thoughts.

I didn't know Lucille very well but I feel like I did through the stories Amanda has told over the years! A very special bond between those two. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The McClure Family is truly sorry for you loss. Craig, Great Grandpa and Amanda, you all will be in our hearts and prayers.

I was so saddened to hear of Lucille's passing, but I believe she truly is in a beautiful place! Craig & Amanda please know my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Lucille was a kind & loving lady & always had a smile to share! She was blessed to have a long & beautiful life here on earth and her beautiful days will continue in Heaven! Ironically, she passed on my son, Michael's birthday... I know he was waiting to greet her at Heaven's gate. Sending loving thoughts & prayers!

My thoughts and prayers go out to Lucille's family. I loved getting to know Lucille and Larry. Lucille was a great woman.

She was a very nice lady she will be missed. Sorry for your loss.

Craig, so sorry for your loose. cherish all the great memories. You and your family are in out thoughts and prayers.

We have lost truely wonderful woman. In my mind I know she is in a btetter place with no pain even tho my heart aches at the thought of her gone. I will miss her greatly. I have known Lucilee for 40plus years, she has always been a good listener in times of trouble. I am so blessed that she played such a large part in my daughter's upbringing. I know Amanda will always cherish her times with grandma. As I plant my flowers this spring I will remember all of Lucile's beautiful flowers and hope she is doing the same in Heaven. God bless you and rest in NDHWRpeace.

We will miss your sweet and kind smile Lucille. You were the most loving mom and grandma. I am glad your suffering is gone and you are with your daughter in heaven. Love you

Rest in peace mom your pain is now gone you will always be in my heart thank you for always being there for me

I cant tell by this early picture but think this is the lady who had that special chair at ICCare. My husband Richard who has passed on also always played her favorite songs when he played there with Leo Shima or Dons Music Group She liked In Heaven there is no beer.

Our heart felt condolences goes to the Calkins family during this time. I have so many fond memories of Lucille that will be cherished and held close to me.

Bill, Jodi & Nicole Kaeser.