Mrs. Eckhardt will always be in my memory a beautiful, charming and complex woman. The first time I met her at her daughter Cathy's, over 30 years ago we took to each other right away. Cathy and Steve were two of our dearest friends how could her mother and father not have been the extraordinary people they were? My husband Jerry and I were able to enjoy the hospitality and warmth of the lake retreat in Rheinlander with her and dear husband Ritch-ed several times; and Richard would always be at the door waiting with a proffered Manhattan in his hand, the perfect host and Catherine would see to our every need. It is a wonderful setting to remember them both. Cathy would make the most fabulous champagne brunch to take on the boat Sunday mornings, and Catherine reigned beautifully over it all. I will miss knowing she is here, but I know she lives on through her daughters; and that she and her Valentine and daughter Barbara are now reunited heaven sings!