Rob & Deb I'm so sorry to hear of Chad's passing. I just heard about it by chance this morning on a Facebook post of Chad Barkalow. My heart breaks for all of you. Birch court has some fond memories & your kids played a big part. I remember Chad was about two or three when Ron & I moved in. He was such a busy little guy. Then came Jessie & a little later Todd. It was fun watching these kids grow up being adults, getting married & best of all becoming parents. You should be proud. Chad will be missed. You have my deepest sympathy.

Carol Maske; 1465 Jaylen Lane

Rod & Deb, My deepest condolences to you both. Chad certainly had a heart of gold, and

a constant smile on his face. Everyone was a friend. I am certain that his spirit will live on

in his daughters...

Mike

Deb and Family,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Chad. I am thinking and praying the entire Courtney Family can get through this difficult time by remembering the good times and cherish those memories. God Bless You!

Amy Sheehan

Rod and Deb,

Don and I are so very sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers to you all.

I'm sorry for your loss of a great person.

My heartfelt condolences go out to all the lives that Chad has touched. As I read each persons' wish for solace I feel that each is a point of light and remembrance of the good things he did. He leaves behind many fond memories which his loved ones can hold close to help stave the pain of his loss. My deepest sympathy to all who knew Chad during this very difficult time.

Sincerely,

Roger Goedken

Richard and I want to extend our sympathy to Nicole, daughters and his parents and all the family members in their loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Chad was a kind and loving person. He will be missed.

I met Chad shortly after I began working with Jessie at Pearson in 2004. She had just had Lilli and I was pregnant with my youngest son.  I remember that Chad was often at the house always making us laugh  while paying special attention to the kids. For as long as I can recall my own two boys called him "Uncle Chad." Growing to love him like a brother as I love Jessie as a sister I can't help  but feel the loss of his passing. Jessie, I especially want you to know how deeply I know you are feeling the loss of your brother but even more your best friend. The two of you on a trip to Wal-Mart was always an experience. Listening to you call out "caw-caw" your own Marco Polo locating system.  So as you find your way through the pain and you feel lost just call out "caw caw" and I know he will find you and guide you home.  I will miss you Chad. To all of you: Rod, Deb, Jessie, Todd, all the spouses and kids. ...I would like to extend my deepest sympathies for your profound loss.  May peace and serenity find you in this time of sorrow knowing Chad is being rocked in the arms of angels. Free at last.

With much love,

Michele Covarrubias

Cristian & Ian

I'm so sorry, Nicole. We are thinking of you in this difficult time.

Deb and Rod, So sorry to hear of your loss - saw an email from Dixie and Cindy today. I know that he was a wonderful and loving son and a great father and husband. My heart goes out to you and your family,

Sincerely,

Janine and Vance Rahn

Dear Deb and family,

It is with great sadness that I learned about your loss. I don't think I have any words to express my deepest condolences as there is no word for the loss of a son or daughter. As I look at the beautiful pictures of Chad I can only imagine the empty space he is leaving. May God bring you peace and comfort over time. I have you all in my thoughts. A big hug... Liuska

I did not know Chad personally but I went to school with his brother and have had the privilege of having his father as a support in my life. Death is sometimes unexpected and so unfair I pray for Chad's spirit to be at peace with the Lord and for his children, parents sister and brother to remember God needed him and there's a blessing even in the midst of all the pain....a greater purpose. Now he's all around the prefect angel to protect you all.

Deb, and Rod- On behalf of myself, and my family we would like to extend our heartfelt sympathies to you, and your family with the loss of your beloved son. Wishing all of you peace and comfort now, and as you move forward. Thoughts and prayers surround each of you.

God Bless,

Krista Poulsen & Family

I am very saddened to hear of Chads passing. My deepest condolences to Chads wife, parents and the entire family. I have many fond memories of Chad. We grew up together and learned many life lessons in Scouts and at school.

He will be missed. May God comfort the family during this difficult time.

We've been friends since Jr.high and we've been through a lot together I'm very much at a loss for words. My heart goes out to his family. May you all find peace somehow. Chad was one of a kind and will forever be missed.

Rodney Courtney and family , we are so sorry for your loss. may god in heaven be by your side in this hard time. Dean & Elaine Finley

You were a great friend to me and my brothers. You were there for Josh when no one else was. You opened up your home to him and made him feel like part of the family. You understood him and his struggle. You were a genuinely good guy which is so hard to come by. Your love for your wife and daughters was inspiring. I remember you looking all over for special kind of rock that you promised to find for one of your daughters. You were not going home until you had it! You were so passionate with immense emotions. I know you are at peace now. We're gonna miss you buddy!

Wishing your family and friends strength and peace in this difficult time!

Steve and I are so very sad to here of Chad's passing.

He was such a handsome and soulful young man. I remember

being at his wedding and thinking what a fine man he was.

May god be with you during this most difficult time.

Deb and Rod,

Terri and I are saddened and are praying for you and your family. I hope you find the strength get through this and carry on. May God bless you .

Terri and Mike Finley

My heart goes out to your family. Chad was a great man and beautiful soul. He will be missed. I will keep your family in my prayers and hope you find some kind of peace.

Deb, I was so saddened to hear of the death of your beloved son. I remembered the many times you spoke of him when we worked together at UIHC. I am holding Chad and all of your family in the light of comfort and peace.

Deb and Rod, You have my deepest sympathy. May you find strength in the Serenity Prayer. Cindy and Dan Leedom

Rod and Debbie and family: You all have my deepest heartfelt sympathy at this time of your loss. It's so very hard to find the right the words at a time like this. William Sedlacek & Family

Chad certainly will be missed. A young life cut short for sure. He always had a smile on his face and always had a kind word to say.

Most importantly he always took time out to talk with you even though it seemed like he was always in a hurry. Rest in peace brother.

Tim and I know Chaddie as such a sweet, smart little boy. And then as an intelligent, exploring young man and again at his wedding. Chaddie loved his family and children, his spirit and good heart are indisputable. Sometimes things grab hold of us. Sometimes we are able to break free and sometimes we are not. Chaddie's sweet spirit now transcends those things. We will always remember Chaddie with his wry smile, twinkle in his eye and big heart.

Rod, Debbie, Todd and Jessie. Chad was a gift to all that knew him. His life will be remembered fondly and celebrated proudly. I hope you know how much everyone hurts for you at this cruel moment and I, for one, will pray for strength and serenity to you and your family.

Our condolences and prayers to the family and friends of Chad. Our hearts dropped when we heard the news and still sit with disbelief. As much as we would love to be there during this time it is difficult for us to do so. We pray this for you and all....... Most heavenly and gracious father, we ask that you give strength and understanding to the family and friends of Chad. We ask that you take his troubled soul and give him the light of truth and grace. Lay him to rest with Abraham till the day when we all can be together again. We pray that we share the good of his life and happiness he brought to us all. May your grace, your mercy, your love comfort all. In the glorious name of Jesus the Christ we ask and pray all these things and more. Amen

With deepest sympathy,

Tim and Toni Grimm