Paul and Stacy were my next door neighbors. I was out of town and just found out and am weeping. I talked to a few neighbors-- in shock, mourning & reverent. The house stands there -- empty. Stacy & Paul were the best neighbors. I see them-- each bright, sunny, having great yard projects (you should see their back patio-- an engineering feat-- much cement and bricks in rounded walls)finished last fall. They were getting the patio ready for spring and to finally place the furniture. They were working in the yard the last few times I saw them and we chatted. They always worked together and seemed to enjoy the projects so much. They took walks holding hands. It is hard not to be so sad--but God works in mysterious ways. Stacy brought me beans from her garden in the summer. Last winter Paul snow blowed my walks when he did his. That was practically every day -- so much snow. They would not take any money. Both Stacy and Paul stood in their yard, rakes in their hand. Paul said that if I paid him he would give it to charity. Stacy explained that Paul really enjoyed snow blowing -- good exercise. (I shoved a bill into Paul's hand and told him to take Stacy out to dinner). That is the way they were---. Always happy to chat. Checking up on me. Asking about my work. My two black cats that go outside would like to peer in the window at Stacy's two kitties (indoor cats). I hope that someone is giving a loving home to them. I would have taken them --if they did not find a home. The image I keep seeing: Paul & Stacy walking hand in hand into the sunset. They were so excited and prepared when Matthew & Katie visited. So much sympathy for children and families. Thank you Paul & Stacy for your light and kindness. Yesterday little white yellow flowers were peeking out of Paul & Stacy's flower patch. Today, in the warm sunlight, I am sure there are a lot more flowers in their patch (so lovingly cared for) embracing the light.

My deepest condonlences to Paul's family and friends. Paul and my son Kevin became friends at Urbandae High School. They were both part of the group of students that went to Germany in 1989. From stories I heard they had a wonderful trip. Our fondest memory of Paul was when he went on RAGBRAI with my husband and I and several of their friends. I'm not sure Paul had trained a lot to be prepared fot the ride, but he made it through the experience Paul had such a wonderful personality. I am sure he will be greatly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of getting to know him.

My condolences -- Paul was a kind and loving person. I will miss his smiling face at Thanksgiving at the LaMar farm, and I know that his family and friends will miss him every day.

Eunice,

My prayers and thoughts go out to your family during this difficult time. Pat Decker

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Paul and Stacy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. It was a pleasure working with Paul and he will be greatly missed.

Paul was my cousin (I can't believe I have to say was)more specifically, he became my step-cousin when my mother Susan Salter and his uncle Ro Foege married almost 34 years ago. At that time, his family lived in Spencer (then later, Urbandale) and we lived in Mount Vernon, so our time together was limited by distance but as is often the case with cousins, early years seem to have a special grip on the memory. This is especially true for me when as a young girl my sister and I were introduced to the entire Foege clan at a family reunion. There must have been hundreds (maybe even thousands :-) ) of them; the aunts, the uncles, cousins and all their significant others..how on earth would we ever learn everyone's names? Would they even want to know ours? What if they didn't like us? Then we arrived, the awkward new cousins, and actually started to feel like we might fit in. Without any of the adult baggage that comes along with step-families and with the innocent acceptance of children, we were welcomed into this already existent gang of cousins. Tim, John, Paul, Leigh Ann, Holly and I played, fought, gossiped, tattled, protected, liked, then didn't like, sometimes hated but always loved each other. As time passed; we grew up, made new friends, traveled on different (although sometimes parallel) journeys, started careers, started families and moved on.never forgetting and always cherishing our relationship. Cousins are like distant siblings: they know who you really are, they saw and loved you during your awkward phases and you always know, no matter how far away they may be or whatever different path they are on, they are in your corner.

I am happy that we were able to spend a handful of gatherings together at my parent's home recently and catch up. I got to meet Stacy, Matthew and Katie, and learn more about Paul's passion for his work, for flying and the time he was able to spend with his kids, who he loved dearly. Paul was a genuinely kind, gentle soul who really cared about other people and when you talked to him, you knew he was listening intently and thoughtfully. He lived in the moment and what you said really mattered to him. While I feel lucky that I got to spend time with Paul after he moved to Iowa City, I'm sad that we didn't spend more time together since we both worked in Cedar Rapids. I find myself wondering how hard could it have been to schedule a lunch or maybe get up just a little bit earlier to meet for coffee?

Paul was a dedicated father he loved Matthew and Katie so much! Every conversation we had always came back to some vacation they had been on, taking them flying with him, teaching them to ski.and, often times, sharing with me the newest breakfast recipe they might be trying I will continue to try to make the cinnamon rolls he claimed were so easy.

I loved Paul and I know his death leaves a hole in the heart of everyone who was blessed with the opportunity to know him. Life is short and, like Paul, we should all try to live in the moment enjoying the time we have with those we hold dear and try more often to find time, even if only a phone call, to let the people we love know the special place they hold in our hearts.

Eunice, Theresa, Tim, John: I love you all very much and my hearts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time, and the many that will follow. I know he was greeted with a great big bear hug from Uncle Ken!

My heartfelt condolences to your family - you are in my thoughts and prayers. After reading all of the other messages I wish I had known Paul on a more personal level. As a coworker at Rockwell I had a few occasions to work with Paul, which were always enjoyable. I was immediately impressed by his upbeat personality and desire to learn anything that would enhance his skill set and, if I ever had a request Paul would always reply in a timely and precise manner. If by chance I would see Paul out in the factory he always had a smile and a friendly remark, which I will greatly miss. I will always have nothing but fond memories of Paul. . . .

Paul was always a joy to be around, you were guaranteed a smile and warm laughter. His friendly and easy-going manner could help you through a tough day. Even though it's been years since high school, I can instantly be transported back when I think of him, and will always live on in my memory.

Paul's presence and spirit will be missed. I met Paul through the aviation side of his life - as a pilot, member of EAA Chapter 33, and our newest member of the Iowa City Airport Commission. Just over a year ago. I met his children briefly at the airport one day. He always talked about his children, and he was clearly a proud dad. He was a consensus builder on the Airport commission - gathering info, listening, looking at all sides, sketching things on the whiteboard. Smiles and a great laugh. These are my memories of Paul. This untimely loss is one that stuns us and reminds us of the fragility of our lives. It's a reminder to live today like we mat not have tomorrow. My condolences to Paul's and Stacy's families.

Paul was a great guy and was a great person to work with. He will truly be missed by all. Prayers to all of his family.

We cherished our time with Paul and Stacy! Whether dining somewhere in Iowa City or in Mt. Vernon, it was always a delight to have their company. When they married in 2007, we were pleased to host a reception at our home to introduce this kind and caring couple to our family and friends. We miss you!

To the family of Paul,

Like Joe Assouline, I served on the Iowa City Airport Commission with Paul. Paul always made positive and thoughtful contributions to our meetings and activities. He was excited to see our airport host Fly Iowa in June. We will miss him deeply, especially at that event.

-Chris Ogren

My deepest sympathy to the families of Paul and Stacy. Paul and I were members of the Iowa City Airport Commission. In the little time we served together, we quickly developed a friendly relation. I never had the pleasure to meet Stacy but we all knew her through Paul recount of their trips and family outings. Paul was genuinely a good person trying his best to understand the issues and be fair to everyone. He did bring to the commission, and most likely all people around him, good humor and congeniality. His presence will be sorely missed among us.

Our deepest condolences to the families of Paul and Stacy. They were an amazing couple. We were blessed to know them through the Friends of Old Brick dance club. What joy they exuded! Our hearts are never prepared for such sorrow. May God hold your family in HIs loving arms and may the love of friends care for you during this difficult and sorrowful time.

Paul and I worked very closely on a project. Paul was absolutely one of the best people to work with. His attitude to better himself and to help those around him was unequalled. He was one that believed in teamwork and building team effectiveness, and would do whatever it took to ensure the success of a struggling team member.

Im so sorry to Pauls family. He was great to work with these last 5 years.

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Paul - I knew there was a reason why Instant Messaging was down this morning. When I loaded my favorites up to the desktop, I found it odd that you were not in this morning, but now I know why.

I worked with Paul at Clipper and I'll always remember him as a person with a warm personality, and a positive attitude, no matter what the situation. He was very proud of his kids, and his wife, and always looked forward to spending time with them. I have nothing but fond memories of Paul. He was a good man.