I remember so many fun times my brother and I had with Judy and her brother Steve. Our families spent so much wonderful time together. My. Prayers are with your family.
So sorry to hear of Judy's death. We worked together a number of years ago at the VA. She was a lovely person and I send my condolences to all the family.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time of the loss of your wife. Remember the fond memories and use these to provide strength.