R. Thomas "Tom" Douglass
1932 - 2020
Condolences
I met Tom in 1973 when I came to The University of Iowa for graduate school. He was my supervisor and helped me enormously as I was very young and inexperienced in the classroom. I remember his wonderful laugh and his unique sense of humor. After he retired as Professor of Spanish, I would see him occasionally around town. He was a mensch of the highest order and shall be missed greatly. My condolences to his family.
Ozzie F. Díaz-Duque
Iowa City
Thank you for your service to this great country
REST IN PEACE
A VIETNAM VETERAN
Hiawatha Iowa
As Tom & I met many moons ago in the city council chabers & he figured in my nomination
for a city urban renewal. Later at his house after winning the months long bond issue the group shared
A bottle of Ripple wine.
He was later my best man at my wedding and later my wife & I attended the wedding of he and Lisa. I enjoyed his great positive demeanor when ever we crossed paths.
I share my deepest sympathy to Lisa and the entire family. He will always be in my thoughts
as he was a major factor in my life.
Lisa, Alex, Forrest, Monica, Gabriel and Eric,
I’m so grateful to have known your Pop, he was one of the kindest men I’ve ever met. He was so proud of you all. He kept me up to date with all of your accomplishments when I bumped into him in the aisles of Wal-Mart. He couldn’t talk about how proud he was without his eyes welling up with tears (mine too).
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I’m here for you.
Love
Emily
Monica, Gabe, Eric, Forrest, and Lisa-
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray that your family is able to feel peace and love during this tough time.
Noel Dalmasso (CCA High School)
Lisa and family, please accept my condolences. Tom sounds like a wonderful man, and I'm so sorry for his loss. I wish you peace and comfort in good memories through this hard time.
Jennifer Horn-Frasier
It was always great to see Tom at the field house. I played racquetball there these past 20 years and almost every time I would see Tom coming or going. He was so friendly and happy and it just didn't seem right if he wasn't there. He was faithful and had a great perseverance through health issues. He was a lot of fun, so I always enjoyed talking to him and seeing him laugh about basic life happenings. I will miss Tom in the locker room and will cherish his memory!
Jim Goodrich
I know how much Lisa and Tom loved each other. It was just apparent from seeing them together. The joy of the children was as full. Lisa, I know how grief can overtake you. I hope you can take the time to grieve and celebrate, be angry and sad and grateful. All the roll coaster ups and downs that the grief ride takes you. Know your community, including me, are here for you. Be well.
I met Tom years ago while working out at the Fieldhouse. We had many pleasant conversations. I told him on more than one occasion I wanted to be like him when I grew up. I was most impressed earlier this year when he began to bring a walker with him to the gym. That was certainly a first.
I knew he was a retired professor and scholar, but didn't know the extent of his accomplishments. He struck me as a humble man. He was an inspiration and a good role model.
My sincere condolences to the family. I think he lived a very full life.
Tim Holman
Please accept my condolences. I took a summer school course in spanish from him many years ago. He was a wonderful man.
I am sorry to learn of Tom's passing. For many, many years, I would talk with Tom in the Field House, where our lockers were in the same aisle. Tom was amazingly dedicated to racquetball and regular exercise. Once, we played squash, when Tom's partner failed to show up, and it was quite an adventure for Tom because the head of the squash racquet was farther out than what he was used to. But, he tried! For some years, Tom asked me to bring in the weekly New York Times food section, which had interesting recipes. I don't know if he ever cooked with them, but he seemed to enjoy them. Tom and I were wrestling fans, so we would often talk about the team, and our seats in the arena were in the same section, so I would see him, and sometimes little ones of his family. As Tom's physical condition needed some operations, I was impressed by his dedication to exercise. He would come in with his cane, or the walker, and "shuffle" along the aisle as fast as he could. What courage to keep it going! He was proud of his family, but he did not boast about their considerable accomplishments. It was a pleasure to know him.
Bryce Plapp
Not until I read Tom's obituary did I know that he was born in the next town over from where I spent most of my growing up years, Chatham, NJ. We played Madison High School in sports. Since Tom was about 10 years older our paths likely did not cross until we met in Iowa City. I was running for the City Council and active in issues such as opposing city plans to widen roads in residential neighborhoods, urban renewal, and anti-interstate exchange efforts by the DOT. We won some and lost some, but Tom was always with the group the whole way. He was one of the first people to come forward and support my run for Council in 1973. Tom was a great guy with a tremendous sense of community.
Lisa and family, for well over a decade my grandparents, George and Marjorie Dane, sat behind you at Iowa wrestling meets. They thoroughly enjoyed attending meets, visiting with you and seeing or hearing about your children, especially the twins. Those were fun times with Iowa’s dominance and exciting matches. My grandparents remembered them fondly. Heaven’s Iowa fans base gained another loyal Hawkeye in Tom. May you find peace and hope in celebrating a great life in Tom. Jane Driscoll & the Dane Family
Lisa and family -
Please accept my deepest condolences on Tom's passing. I met Tom on the racquetball courts of the Field House. We spent many hours banging around the ball in those courts. He was a gentleman on and off the court. During the games - and after in the locker room - we solved many of society's problems. We also both had a love for Iowa wrestling. I didn't see him much after the racquetball days, but whenever I did he greeted me warmly and always had something good to say. He was a very positive influence in my life and I'll miss him.
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