Judy - I'm very sorry to hear that Ed has passed away. The first time we met I called Ed sir and he was so taken aback, but pleased. He said " you don't hear that much today ". He seemed thoughtful and straight forward. I'm happy though, that you two had many years together, a lifetime of memories to hold and to share with others.

Praying for you,

Tammy Coverdale-Bauer

Ed, I'm having a beer for you while I write this. You were a terrific neighbor and an even better friend. The block parties were legendary and you were a big part of that. I know right now you're catching up with Pat, Jack, Torp, Annie, Carol, Elaine, and all of the others. I will have another, or two or more, for you. RIP friend.

Brian Bradley

Dear Judy

I have lots more memories of Ed than I can share here. I'll just mention one thing that stood out.

Ed was a pretty big guy, a former football player with, admittedly some rough edges at times. But I was struck by his tender side. A few instances come to mind.

We have a photo of him holding Eleanor as an infant, carefully, gently smiling.

I remember on one visit to you, his strenuous efforts to have someone come help save a tiny bird that was injured, on your deck if I remember accurately.

And I remember him with a large black cat, in his lap, around his shoulders, even on his head, not irritated but affectionate.

Enough for now. I know you were married 50 years. It's a huge, painful loss.

Gene

Gene and I (and eventually our daughter Eleanor) had the pleasure of many years of family visits with Judy and Ed in their Iowa City home. I remember many trips to a variety of places of interest, with Ed at the wheel. These included Iowa City restaurants and "sights", as well as several in other parts of the state. Before his energy was sapped by illness, he was generous in his willingness to drive long distances to provide us with Iowa experiences we couldn't have anywhere else.

Ed was interested in local history and seemed always to know the "back story" of the places we visited. He admired people who had worked hard to create successful enterprises, particularly those who started as "outsiders" and overcame obstacles. He spoke with great respect of the energy, perseverance, and family orientation it took to do so.

He and Judy shared a justifiable pride in their attractive home, an affection for their neighborhood, an adventurous spirit in exploring diverse cuisines, and a mutual love and concern for their succession of wonderful cats. For those who knew him, his is a life that will not soon be forgotten. Judy, deep condolences for your loss.

Judy, my deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved husband. Hoping you can share memories of Ed at our next virtual support group meeting. Jan Thein

Judy, I am so sorry we aren't able to be together in person during this time. I am thinking about you though. And thinking of time we spent with Ed when he was more fully himself than he had been recently. I am remembering, particularly his love of a good story. And of course his gentleness and care for all the cats and other creatures that you and he have shared your home with over the years! Kirsten and I will make a donation in his honor. - Eleanor