Marilyn and I spent many hours talking, and she took us and all of our children to Hawkeye Games. During our years in Iowa City, she introduced us to her mother and brother, in addition to Ken, Karen, their spouses and the granddaughters--she deeply loved each of you and was proud of you. She was an ever loyal fan, friend, and follower of Jesus. Forgiveness and optimism did not come naturally and her efficiency and bright mind were often tested by other's failures or government red tape, but she never wavered in her dedication and desire to be a dependable person who could be counted on. She volunteered in numerous community and church settings, and even helped me type my dissertation! I remember her surprise when I suggested that she take half a day off each week just to do personal appointments, have lunch with a friend, or relax--even though she had so much unused vacation and sick leave; it didn't seem like she should leave her post. She was efficient, accurate, organized and highly skilled in administrative and secretarial duties, and could make herself heard at Hawkeye games and beyond. She touched my life, and I grieve her death. May those of you who are close to her find the comfort and grace needed at this time. Please let me know if and when a memorial service is planned.. Delores Friesen delores.friesen@fresno.edu .
