Andy was such a massive presence that the idea of him no longer being with us seems a shocking impossibility to me. He was so unique and so on fire. I met Andy in the early 90s and continued to hang out with him several times a year since. Each time, we connected immediately and talked for hours in animated ways about life and our crazy experiences. As I have gotten older, I have come to believe that the purpose of life is simply to experience. If this is true, Andy had one of the most valuable and thrilling lives of anyone I have known.
Eve, I understand firsthand this kind of devastating loss, and my heart hurts for you. I know you know this, but I will state it anyway - Rarely in life does someone like your dad come around, but when they do, the world shakes, and lives are changed.
There is no doubt that my life was changed by knowing Andy. I am so glad to have met him and so very, very sad that he is gone.